If there were a purpose to life, it would not be to:

Define your story, make your mark, make memories, make amends, find meaning, help people, find happiness, or even grow...

It would be to experience connection and separation so completely, to know both so absolutely, that all sense of separation falls away.

This can only be done by living through and with both. By connecting with separation - rather than judging it, explaining it, or pretending it doesn't exist. And recognising connection when you experience it.

This may appear confusing or frustrating to the mind that wants to get to an imaginary end as soon as possible… Until the mind settles, and life, as it is now, is not resisted, but accepted, rolled with, and enjoyed.

The process of coming to know becomes much easier, smoother, and more enjoyable with a friend or two to help you distinguish between connection and separation - to provide clarity when there is confusion, lightness when there is weight, love when there is fear.

I am one of those friends. And I don’t want anything from you - not money, not recognition, not appreciation - which, in my experience (and probably yours), is a very rare thing.

What is also rare is the fact you're even here - prepared to look, to question, to think again, to dare not to be right, to dare not to know, and in so, come to know... (assuming you’re here for that, and not to sell me SEO services, which I get a lot of emails about nowadays.)

This site explores the experience of connection and separation, and will soon include examples of both so that you may 'sense into' the difference. Connection cannot be lost - the mind simply obscures it, so many of the writings will identify specific narratives, concepts, ideas, and assumptions that 'get in the way' of experiencing it.

Sessions offer the opportunity to connect - to simply enjoy each other's company, and/or explore a situation you'd like some clarity on.

What I've discovered, through my own experience, is that there is no right or wrong way, no quick or slow route, no mistakes, and nothing to fail or succeed at - it's all experience, exploration, experimentation, life simply happening, and through it, an ever deeper sense of knowing.