If there were a purpose to life, it would not be to...

Tell your story, make your mark, make memories, make amends, find meaning, help people, find happiness, or even grow.

It would be to experience connection and separation so completely, to know both so absolutely, that all sense of separation falls away.

This can only be done by living through and with both - by experiencing joy as well as sorrow, peace as well as unpeace, truth as well as illusion.

The process of connecting ever more frequently and deeply becomes much easier, smoother, and more enjoyable with a friend or two to help you distinguish between connection and separation - to provide clarity when there is confusion, lightness when there is weight, love when there is fear.

I am one of those friends, and I don’t want anything from you - which, in my experience (and probably yours), is a rare thing.

What is also rare is the fact you're even here - prepared to look, to question, to reconsider, to sense into, to not be right, to not know, and in so come to know... Assuming that you’re here for that, and not to sell me SEO services, which I get a lot of emails about nowadays 😁.

What I've discovered, through lived experience, is that there is no right or wrong way, no quick or slow route, no mistakes, and nothing to fail or succeed at - for there is no goal or destination.

It's all experience, exploration, experimentation, life simply happening, and through it, an ever deeper and vaster sense of love, joy, and peace.